Communicated Content – Every relationship has its journey of ups and downs. But this journey embarks on a roller coaster ride when problems occur in a couple’s sexual life. Erectile Dysfunction is also known as the “couple’s disease,” which is aptly said because it affects more than just one partner. During this phase of difficulty, both partners should stick together and hold each other’s back firmly.
In this article, you will read about ways through which you can swim through the troubles without losing the relationship.
What is Erectile Dysfunction?
Erectile dysfunction is when a man cannot get or keep an erection. It is a common sexual health problem affecting more than 150 million men worldwide.
Effects of Erectile Dysfunction on the Relationship
- Loss of intimacy can play a detrimental role in a marriage.
- A man starts to feel less about his masculinity.
- Lack of information creates an atmosphere of fear and guilt in both partners.
- Communication gap or miscommunication plays a negative barrier.
- Insecurities lead to sexual infidelity or doubts surrounding them.
- The deadliest effect is Divorce.
Role of a Partner in Erectile Dysfunction –
Communication
Like every other dark cloud, Erectile Dysfunction also demands healthy communication between the partners. Both partners need to be vocal about the entire situation. Talking about your partner’s erectile dysfunction can certainly be difficult, but it is necessary. Conversation with your partner is the first step to overcoming the condition.
Don’t start a blame game
None of you is responsible for this problem. A woman’s attractiveness is in no way proportionate to a man’s chances of getting Erectile Dysfunction. Sexuality is the most vulnerable and intimate arena of our lives yet it is the most unexplored arena as well. Erectile issues can raise questions and doubts beyond repair. Thus, it is paramount to all other aspects that both of you refrain from blaming yourself or one another for this issue.
Educate yourself
“How much knowledge you gain depends on your willingness to learn.” Your significant other is the most important person in your life. And that’s exactly why it is crucial to make yourself enlightened about the condition so you can be more empathetic towards each other. Share all the Erectile Dysfunction information you’ve uncovered with your partner as well. Don’t just research about the physical aspect of the disease but also be keen on understanding the mental perspective about the same.
Motivate
Motivate your man to get help. A study shows that women are the primary reason why men with Erectile Dysfunction visit a medical practitioner. Be the support he needs and help him choose the right treatment to address this health concern just like any other one. A sexless relationship, even if it’s temporary, needs immediate dealing. Most importantly, accompany your partner to his doctor’s appointments. Ask questions and actively participate in your partner’s treatment and recovery.
Love him
If your partner is not willing to admit that he has a problem or is too embarrassed to talk about it then find the courage and confidence to talk to your partner about it, and figure out different solutions together. If he can’t get hard, respond with affection, patience, and understanding. Don’t let the fear or resentment make a cloud on his vision. Accept him whole-heartedly and with positivity. Reassure him that you are always there by his side. Your role is to be supportive and sensitive.
Explore other options of intimacy
An erection is part of sex, but it’s certainly not everything. You can explore other ways to be with him at the moment. Try to create intimacy in your relationship with your partner in ways that don’t require an erection and sexual intercourse. Try cuddles or orals or different types of touch that create arousal and pleasure. You can try different types of Massage techniques to bring you simple pleasures and relaxation. Take this as an opportunity to discover new areas of your sexuality and interests. Remember, it is okay to feel nervous. Take it slow if need be.
Lifestyle changes
Encourage your partner to be proactive about his health. Encourage him to break the habits of smoking and consuming alcohol. Persuade him for physical activities and fitness. Compel him for a balanced and healthy dietary lifestyle. Pay attention to his vascular health and help him get back in shape. Erectile Dysfunction is often caused due to an underlying disease that can also be life-threatening. Therefore, taking proper health precautions and medications becomes dominant.
Join support groups
It is comforting to know that you are not alone. Furthermore, a support group of likewise people can inspire you to learn and grow through the circumstances. The support groups, either online or in-person, help in multiple folds of your journey as they offer to talk about issues, relationships, treatments, and success stories. These support groups can be difficult to find, but local healthcare providers may have good resources.
Emotional satisfaction
It is important to address the emotional side-effects that both partners go through in this phase of life. Firmly believe and accept that it is possible to have a satisfying sex life that does not require an erection firm enough for penetration. Professional counseling may be an option to explore your feelings. A therapist can help you both in dealing with the issue head-on. The therapist will help you both in understanding your partner’s emotions and psychological stress brought upon by this issue.
Conclusion
This isn’t the end of your relationship, both sexually and emotionally. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, even if it seems far too distant at first. As long as there is communication, trust, and a willingness to try, Erectile Dysfunction can cause no harm to your love. As a partner of the sufferer, you don’t remain alien to the suffering. Don’t let any of you become a victim. Don’t let your relationship fall prey to this situation. Support your partner in overcoming this situation.
